Thursday, March 26, 2015
That Complicated Girl
I know girls will occasionally fall for the asshole, but when did they start to like getting treated like one? I never thought I would find a girl who laughs and finds it funny when shes treated badly over being complimented and doing nice things. Being a sort of follower kid that I am, I decided to take on an asshole role, and she does't seem to like that. When is it time to just give up and move on? I'm stuck in that unbeatable pickle where it has come down to where I haven't spoke to her. However, I'm a type of guy who wants to know everything and solve problems, and it kills me that I can't seem to figure this girl out. Is she tying to make me a better person, or just a puppet working my strings?
Well, I'm either going to just keep playing the game like I always have been, or I will finally break the barrier. By that, meaning enough with the complicated girl and say, "screw it," and wait until college. I've done a pretty good job at remaining single, I'm good at that. No matter the case, I'm still just a youngin' on his grind.
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I like this. It's kind of funny actually. Just the way you word it. Girls are complicated,that is true. I'm a girl and I don't even understand us.
ReplyDeleteI really enjoyed this! I think you are looking for the wrong girls!
ReplyDeleteOne of your best pieces of writing yet, great job! I loved it!
ReplyDeletewonder who this is about haha.,
ReplyDeleteReally enjoyed reading this, very great writing.
ReplyDeleteLove this post. I wouldn't take on the asshole role, just because that one girl likes it, doesn't mean the rest of them do. She's probably just trying to test you, what she really wants is you to just straight out be as nice as you can be. Girls tend to hide the fact they like guys who are nice because we hide our feeling. On the inside, we love a cheesy line once in a while. :)
ReplyDeleteYour right, being a "asshole" isn't the solution.
ReplyDeleteGirls are soooo hard to figure out sometimes... Maybe become the gentleman and not the asshole ;p
ReplyDeleteMatty Stew,
ReplyDeleteBy now I should know you have a sensitive side (from all your previous writing) but you never cease to amaze me with it. This is a really honest post about what's been confusing boys about girls since the beginning of time: why do the good girls seem to like the bad boys? Similarly, why do good boys seem to like bad girls?
I got an answer for you Matty Stew, yes I do. Opposites attract. That simple. My Matt is selfless with a heart of gold. I'm self-absorbed and often shallow. There you go. We need balance in relationships. Usually there's a giver and a taker and in really good relationships you just keep swapping roles and taking turns being there for the other person.
Now if all of that doesn't make your head spin, then just keep on your grind youngin.'
Amazing Matt, with your sensitive side and this post i'm sure you're on your way to getting all the ladies ;) I enjoyed how you wrapped the post up though. You're a savage in my book, but definitely keep grindin'.
ReplyDeleteI like this post. Yeah, girls are absolutely complicating. Although, guys can be, too haha. Take it from me, you'll wanna wait til college to find someone to care about. The person I care about will be stuck here for a couple years while I go away. No idea how we're gonna make it work.
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